Guess what, everyone? Today was my mom’s baby shower and it was SO much fun! We played games, we ate delicious treats (we had the whole thing catered by La Soufflé) and my mom got a TON of cute gifts. You should see some of the baby clothes! They’re SO tiny. She got mostly green and yellow things, because we don’t know if it’s a boy or a girl. My aunt (my mom’s sister) thinks it’s DEFINITELY a girl, but I don’t know. I keep switching between boy and girl! What I DO know is that my mom said in about a month or so the baby will be here, so we have to be ready for him or her. What does that mean? Well, she said we should pick up a few more baby clothes, some diapers, a baby bathtub and a few other things. We’re going to go to the store after school gets out for the summer. I can’t wait!
If you guys could tell me one thing about taking care of babies (something that would help me be a better big sister), what would it be?
Well i’m a big sister of 4 3 girls and 1 boy and my mom is gonna have another due on december 24th christmas baby yay anyway you should try to help your mom with the baby as much as you can only things you know how to do put clothes on rock the bay clean the nursery things like that hope i helped-savanna or nana as my sisters and brother call me also we will know what the baby is in a couple days
I hope it’s a boy or we’ll have another millie on our hands before long.
Sounds awesome! I personally hope and think it will be a boy. ~~Rainbow*Rain~~
UI I think thatI thIjnk that it;s going to be a boy at least I hope it is. Anyway my one piece of advice is “Never mess with a happy baby” No matter how much you want to play/hold him (or her)
Well, I’m actually the little one of the family, granted that my brother is older then me. But- anyways, you have to forgive and forget if the baby does something that she/he is not supposed to do. Next up, do not look for fights, because, those are a no-no! Obviously, I think you know that, but just so you and your sibling have peace between, not war! Another thing to keep in mind is that try to be independant, (well, that would probably help… maybe) so that your mom does not have to take care of both you and your brother/sister. Lay off some work for her. Also, keep in mind that you shouldn’t be jealous that the baby will probably be getting all the attention. After all, it’s only a baby! ~§ugªrC☼met✽
It’s been a while since I’ve been on WKN, and this is the first time I’ve commented, so…hi everyone! @Roberta…well, for starters, I have a little brother of my own (who is always getting in my hair) and I’ve learned how to deal with him. If he’s being naughty, I try not to be mean about it, but I’m also not very nice about it, either. Just try to be kind yet serious with him, and you’ll be fine. And, like SugarComet said above, you shouldn’t be jealous if he gets lots of attention. He’s a baby, for goodness sake. HE NEEDS ATTENTION. This is what I learned when my brother gets more attention than I do. Good luck! ~*♪Sky15♪*~
congrats Roberta!!!!! i am so happy for you. i have an older sister but i still have things to tell. if they cry i would first check their diaper andif not that then try feeding them.they could just be crying because they want attention also. when you go shopping make you sure you get it a few toys too. babies need things to keep there selves entertained with. also if you are laying them down lay them on their back. if you lay them on their stomach it is harder for them to breathe. and on their back they can move easier. and one more thing………… GET PLENTY OF DIAPERS!!!! :)
I have a new baby sister and she’s sitting right next to me! I helped out a lot with diaper changing and bottle feeding. Your mom will be thankful for your work:D
Well… im no expert, but it is never to early to be a good role model. ya know, respect your parents, do your chores because that little girl or boy will be WATCHING you.
I totally agree. You need to be a good role model. I have a younger sister, and she is constantly doing what I do. Just what you said Yay!!pants (BTW you might want to consider changing that name…..) help your parents out. For SURE take a babysitting class so you know how to change diapers, and how to hold babies. One of the things that irritates me soooo much is when my neighbor holds our other neighbor’s one year old wrong. Do not, whatever you do, hold the by gripping their stomachs!!!! When you baby sibling is one, hold them like, on you hip!!!! (I know all of this because I babysit my neighbors that have two one year old twin babies, a six year old, and an almost-nine year old. I babysit them a lot!!! With my sister of course. I don’t think I’d be able to handle them otherwise.)
I agree! I just have a 5 yr old cousin, so I don’t really know how to deal with babies! I babysit her sometimes, and I try to be a good role model for her, like you said! ~Azula Tiger
Try to play with him/her a lot. And you will become there second mother’! Believe me I have a little bro. He ask me for EVERY THING
Be responsible. Your mom will be very busy, so do responsible things like getting dressed, making your bed, brushing teeth combing hair, and also help your mom take care of the baby by feeding him/her, (if you’re brave enough) changing diapers, etc. Also offer to do chores like washing dishes, setting the table, vacuuming, etc. That way, your mom will not have as much work to do. Your mom would love my idea!
The baby shower sounded like a lot of fun! I have to take care of my cousins all the time. It’s not easy once they get older they are easier to take care of!
Just give all the love and understanding you can!
For a girl, just be patient. For a boy, have a pillow to scream into when you can’t contain it another second, learn not to be grossed out, hide all your stuff that is precious to you, and watch out when you change its diaper.
The shower sounds like it was fun! I My advice would be to set a good example for him/her, and watch over them (not TOO much though). (*(*dragonfish*)*)
LOL Kodiak! Well, I’m actually the little one of the family, granted that my brother is older then me. But- anyways, you have to forgive and forget if the baby does something that she/he is not supposed to do. Next up, do not look for fights, because, those are a no-no! Obviously, I think you know that, but just so you and your sibling have peace between, not war! Another thing to keep in mind is that try to be independant, (well, that would probably help… maybe) so that your mom does not have to take care of both you and your brother/sister. Lay off some work for her. Also, keep in mind that you shouldn’t be jealous that the baby will probably be getting all the attention. After all, it’s only a baby! ~§ugªrC☼met✽
I’m an only child, but I can figure it out from my cousins. You have to be ready for anything. Don’t wear your best formal clothes while feeding the baby, and make it easier on your mom. Don’t wait until you are in the family car to say that you are hungry, thirsty, or you have to go to the bathroom. Deal with it before you leave the house so your mom isn’t working to take care of you when she should be taking care of the baby
If it’s a girl, then make sure you guys become awesome friends. When my little sister was born, I loved playing with her and was always hanging around with her. Now we’re best friends even though we’re 4 years apart :)
OMG!!! I had SOOOOO much fun with my baby brother like….10 years ago. Here’s some advice, if it’s a boy, try to be patient even though you get frustrated, and it’s actually quite fun if it’s a boy. For example, my sister and i had so much fun playing with him when he was still a toddler. he would crawl around trying to chase me and my sister and we would race ahead and leave him behind lol. If it’s a girl, then congrats!!!! It’s the same gender. But you might have to share a room with her when she’s older like i have to share a room now. but you’ll ALSO have someone to play with. sometimes, my brother annoys me so much i cry. But he turned out pretty fun. Just remember, have lots of fun, help a lot, and you’ll grow close to your new sibling!!!!!!
For a girl, do what i do with my sis. Try to be her best friend. So when shes older, she can have a trusting relationship with you and not be annoying. For a boy, I dont have any brothers but I have a cousin. Be prepared for ANYTHING! Boys are unpredictable, so you got to teach him when he’s young the stuff he should NOT do. Just be a good role model and its all good. ;) ~KK♥
Hahaha Kodiac that is so true!!! I have 4 younger siblngs (2 twin sisters, 1 young sister and a brother) and I’m the oldest out of all of them. Just remember to be patient and calm and the baby will get into EVERYTHING when it can walk so don’t start crying or screaming at it when it destroys something or damages it. You just stay calm, clean the mess, and then tell the baby calmly that you don’t do that. It will make the baby think you are fun, patient and a great big sister when all the baby’s friends have mean siblings that scream and yell at them.
LOL Kodiak! Great advice 4 my 3 year old little brother. I have 4 brothers & no sisters so I’m the only girl that’s a kid in the family. I tried babysitting him once by being patient but it didn’t work out so great. (other 9 year old’s out there, do NOT try babysitting until your older. Even if your very mature like me.) Sorry I don’t have any tips Roberta but I only babysitted once & that didn’t work out so great. #Lemon^Starburst#
totaally true about the boy thing……. lots and lots of pillows…….
Since I have a baby sister I know what it is like. I think you should just show him or her good examples and give it lots of love and care. Even though they sleep a lot doesn’t mean there isn’t anything to do with your little sister or little brother because when they get older there is a lot of stuff to do with her or him. Hoped it helped. -Amber
That great! Don’t yell or they will cry endlessly! Don’t ask me how I know! I just do! Your friend sarahandlacey! :lol: :mrgreen: ;-) :-) :roll: