Have you ever gotten to the point in a friendship where you realize that maybe, just maybe, it’s not going very well? I’m at that point with Dacey. I called her again today (that’s the fifth time in two days) and she just isn’t answering her phone. About two hours after I called, she sent me this text message:
“C – call you sometime. Stop calling. Very busy! -D”
I don’t even know what to say about that!
I’m so sad. I thought she was my friend – my true friend. Sure, we don’t see each other very much, but up until recently she always sent me emails and we chatted on the phone a couple times each week. But now? Now I don’t even get the courtesy of her answering my phone calls! Now the emails are short and not very friendly at all! It seems to have started when she began filming her latest movie. Maybe she’s just too big a star to be friends with boring old Cowabelle.
I tried talking to Roberta, but she told me to chill out and focus on my other friends for now.
Well, that’s not helpful advice at all.
I just hope maybe Dacey realizes what a good friend she’s losing and goes back to being her old self.
I bet Dacey’s probably got some big surprise for Cowabelle. Maybe it’s a movie or something. She’s also probably annoyed that Cowabelle won’t give her her space. AND I also feel sorry for the rest of Cowabelle’s friends because it seems that she’s ignoring the rest of her friends!
Cowabelle Do not worry! When my agent (I am an actor.) calls me for a big movie, I get really flustered too! Then my friends, always call to see if i get the part! Just give Dacey A break!
Dacey Bryn this is enough! Please text Cowabelle back and tell her why you are acting this way. It is not very nice of you. -Webkinz#1
ok this is just crazy seriously people whos side are you on cowabelles are daceys im on cowabelles i feel sorry for her and so what if she calls dacey 5 times a day shes just worried tht she might be losing her best friend and im sure any of you people on webkinz news would do exactly the same thing that cowabelle is doing but seriously telling her that she should let dacey go is just bumming her out and lowering her self of steem i think we should be trying to cheer her up not bum her out
Oh Cowabelle! I am so sorry that Darcy is so busy! You need to listen to Roberta – chill and concentrate on other friends. Five calls in two days is too much! You need to make one call, and then wait. (And, perhaps, wait and wait and wait and wait …) She is busy. Her life is different from yours. If you are her true friend, you will be willing to let her have her life, and to include her in your life when she is again available, if you want. It is up to you, but you are going to have to let go of her right now. I know it is tough, but I know you can do it!! Good luck!!
cowabelle,
personally i dont think your stuck up or annoying its just that your frustrated and uppset and if dacey is to busy and doesnt just slow down and spend time with you then shes not a true friend my advice is stop reading her emails if they arent going to be nice and if she calls then you should here what she has to say to you and if she has nothing nice to say dont bother listening to her
She’s filming a movie!!!! She must be VERY busy!
She’s not FILMING a movie, she’s ACTING in a movie! She is a child actor! I REALLY wish I could be one, but I don’t know how to get noticed…
~PCR!
First of all, I’m sorry that Dacey isn’t calling you.I bet that the movie takes up a lot of her time so she doesn’t have time to call. Second, I guess I would get a little irritated if my friend kept calling me over and over again. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t call, but do it less frequently. Maybe once a day to say hi would be ok. Third, I agree with Roberta. You should just concentrate on your other friends for the time being. When the movie is over, I bet Dacey will return to normal. :)
in my opinion, Cowabelle is SO stuck up! she’s just busy, she’s not ignoring you! just chill! when she’s done with her movie (which is a lot of work) she will call/text/email you again!
I feel for you Cowabelle