Hey friends! So remember how I was telling you about my end-of-year history project? It’s coming along really well…and by ‘coming along’; I mean ‘I’ve got a bunch of books from the library sitting next to my desk’. OK, so maybe I haven’t read them yet…but I’m going to! It’s just SO nice outside…and plus, I’ve got some stuff on my mind.
It’s PJ.
Remember how I told you we were planning a beginning-of-summer party? Well, that’s not going as well as I thought it would. Basically, we’ve been arguing about what kind of party to have – and who to invite. We have MOSTLY the same friends, but a few different ones (and we don’t ALL get along)…and I wanted to keep it small, but she wants it to be huge…so it’s turned into a bit of a drama. I’m hoping PJ will come to her senses and realize that the party would be better with fewer guests, and with more of my ideas. Sometimes having a best friend is tough, you know?
Got any advice, Webkinz friends? How do you handle it when you and your bestie disagree?
What you Best Friends need to do is come to a compromise. Instead of inviting a small or huge amount of people try to go for a medium crowd. Invite all of the friends you guys both know and then both of you can pick a few additional people that you want there. If some of the guests don’t get along to well try to remind your guests to be polite towards one and other and to respect eachother even if you guys don’t get along too well. If they don’t like somebody, they don’t need to talk to them but they aren’t allowed to be rude to them either.
I WOULD LOOOOOVE TO COME! can you be my friend!
Well, that hasn’t happened to me (all my friends…. tolerate each other well) I’ve also not planned many parties (besides b-day parties) I THINK YOU CAN REACH A “middle ground” . maybe you could um… only invite people you both like or tell your friend if it’s ok to invite any (and all) friends they want? maybe you all could get to know each other better and all become friends!!!
I have never ever fought with any besides me siblings. Sorry.
I usually combine them both. Like if she wants tons of friends and I want a few we’ll have 1/2 the friends so it’s more than I want and less than she wants and we both have people we like. We have different things to do at our parties so the ones who really don’t get along can do different things. I think my bff has some friends I don’t like much
You should have a fashion party and share ALL the clothing machine recipes!!!
That way there is something for everyone:)
We need the NICE NEON SWIMSUIT for summertime
I say the bigger the party the more awesome it is!
but I think a small gathering of friends for sleepover or movie night is fun too:)
I always try to see my friends point of view, I hope you and PJ can work it out:)
whatever you decide to do, I know It will be great!
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ok. i thought i saw this coming! pj talks a lot and is a bit annoying… ella is well, she is kind a new so…she seems nice! anyway, i knew i saw this coming…..the big fight, but we all know that they will get back together….
You should use “compromise”, helping you and PJ solve your problem. How about you get to decide on one thing and she decides on another? (For example, you decide place or size, and PJ decides number of friends or activities and such others. This helps, trust me, it works with me!)
Sorry for the typos, (like that one right there;my comp isn’t backspacing.)
What would I do? I’d stick to the facts and try to figure out what I did to cause a fight…. it may be helpful just thinking about what you guys could do together and compromise instead of being separate and trying to plan your own party with or without the amount of friends that each of you like. Hope this helps! :)
what I would do is just um…………..well do what she wants and in time she will pay you back . listen friendship is like wetting your self every body can see it but only you can feel it . do not panic it will go away unless you change your pants which is like changing friends . so if you decide to change friends i will always have your back.
p.s. please invite me to your party please thank you.
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