Hey friends! So remember how I was telling you about my end-of-year history project? It’s coming along really well…and by ‘coming along’; I mean ‘I’ve got a bunch of books from the library sitting next to my desk’. OK, so maybe I haven’t read them yet…but I’m going to! It’s just SO nice outside…and plus, I’ve got some stuff on my mind.
It’s PJ.
Remember how I told you we were planning a beginning-of-summer party? Well, that’s not going as well as I thought it would. Basically, we’ve been arguing about what kind of party to have – and who to invite. We have MOSTLY the same friends, but a few different ones (and we don’t ALL get along)…and I wanted to keep it small, but she wants it to be huge…so it’s turned into a bit of a drama. I’m hoping PJ will come to her senses and realize that the party would be better with fewer guests, and with more of my ideas. Sometimes having a best friend is tough, you know?
Got any advice, Webkinz friends? How do you handle it when you and your bestie disagree?
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The Enchanted has a piano that plays music and the Circus has a canon, Bouncy House, & Ball Pit. It is so fun, my guest always have fun with that one.
Well, what I usually do is when we disagree, we take turns picking things to do. It usually works out great!
u need 2 talk it over and moonstar that was awesome what u wrote
Let it slide! She your friend, and you don’t want her to feel like her decisions aren’t important. Maybe a compromise would work, let her pick 5 extra people to invite to the party, and you can keep it small. And you should also think about the feelings of the people you don’t want to invite, how would that make them feel? Just because YOU don’t get along with them doesn’t mean YOU should be the one to exclude. I’ve been excluded before because one person in the group didn’t like me, it hurts to think that one person’s dislike made me be left out of so many things! It’s not fair to make others feel disliked because you don’t necessarily “get along”.
When me and my BFF get in a fight we spend sometime apart and then come together and talk it out until we get a solution.
Me and my sister, the older one, are alot like you and P.J. I’m quiet, she’s loud. I get stressed out around alot of people, even in stores and mall, but mu sister thinks the more the merrier. Oh it’s frustrating sometimes. Thanks though to my sister when i think i’ll have a bad time i usually end up really enjoying myself. We balance each other. That’s why compromise and communication is vital to any GOOD freindship. She’s my sister but also my best freind.. I think a good idea is to have a dinner where you limit the amount of guests with a reception afterwards where more people are welcomed. That way if one of you want to excuse yourselfs or retire for the night it’s not ackward.. Good luck and i’ll keep reading newz to see how it’s turning out..
My best friend and I met in Kindergarten, I now have grandchildren and can’t imagine my life without her. We have had tons of disagreements over the years. Some were serious, some were just plain silly. After all these years together, we just seem to think the same thoughts and never seem to disagree on anything. But the thing that always worked best for us was just to take a time out, then we would remember how much more important our friendship was than the petty little thing we were disagreeing over and the problems were so much easier to resolve that way.
You need the solution called “compromise”. For example, you two should decide, if you do so-and-so, then I’ll do so-and-so. If she wants to decide on how BIG it is, (and let’s say you invite, eh, 15 friends?) then you get to decide, eh, I don’t know, 8/15 friends or the place or something. You divide who does what.
I AM HAVING A PARTY, ADD ME AND YOU CAN COME ON FRIDAY 4/10 . USER:HJKFY. COME ON
When I have a disagreement with any of my friends I Find somewhere between. For example with you you can have a party of 8-10, in between.
Hope its helps!