Hey everyone,
Today is SUCH a bad day. A horrible day, even. Today, my BFF (Stoogles) and I had a HUGE fight. A gigantic fight. Maybe the biggest fight in the history of Kinzville.
What did we fight about, you ask? Christmas. Or, rather, where I’ll be spending Christmas. This year, my dad asked if I could come and visit him in West Kinzville. I usually see my dad one weekend a month (he travels a lot for his job), but he’ll be around for Christmas this year and I haven’t had Christmas with him for a really long time. My mom is going to go and stay at my grandma’s house, so she said it was fine if I wanted to go to my dad’s. I decided that it would be pretty fun to see him, and to see the rest of that side of my family. I told Stoogles the exciting news and he was SO mad. Not even regular mad. SUPER mad. When I asked why, he said that I was wrecking his Christmas! Can you believe that? I’m leaving on December 20, and apparently that’s before everyone in the ‘Kinz wanted to do our gift exchange. Stoogles said that if I’m not there, it will ruin Christmas for everyone. But especially him, because he wanted me to go to the Googles party too. He told me I should stay in Kinzville and spend Christmas with HIS family. I couldn’t believe it! He said that I was selfish for leaving. I’m SO angry. I can’t believe him. I’m not even going to walk to school with him on Monday. If Stoogles thinks he can treat me that way, he’s got another think coming!
Wow, Stoogles is being really selfish! Salley barely gets to see her dad, and when she gets the opportunity he says it’s ruining HIS Christmas?! That is so mean, I wish I could jump into the story and explain to Stoogles how rude he’s being.
wow stoogles is selfish because he does not want you to spend time with your family
that is so rude! if i was in a sutiation like that, i would say, ” what i want to do will not ruin cristmas, cristmas is the time for being friendly and giving gifts. no, this will not make everyones cristmas ruined. i want to be with my dad cause i dont always see him.if you think i am selfish, look at yourself!!!! you are trying to keep me from my own dad.” then i would walk away.
Salley, I totally agree with you!!! You do this with them pretty much EVERY Christmas. Stoogles shouldn’t be mad, he should be HAPPY for you! You even made him Vice President!!! He doesn’t know what it’s like for you.
Signing out, ~*•*•*•StarlightMagic•*•*•*~
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Stoogles called Salley selfish when its really the other way around. :/ :roll:
Hope you two can make up for it! Maybe you should just talk things out with Stoogles, Salley. He probably doesn’t understand that you don’t see your dad that often and that you’re just excited about it. So, just talk things out.
Don’t be sad or mad Salley. I know how you feel. My Aunt wanted me to stay at her house for Christmas with them, and my Grandpa wanted me to stay with him. My mom and dad said that as a family we would go to my Grandpa’s house. It turned out to be really fun. ;) Maybe you and Stoogles can make an agreement on something. ;)
*Luv from LillyLuvie*
Hmm. This is where I would get a little defensive. I mean, it isn’t my fault I have would have to go spend Christmas with my dad. I would say that I am glad to see him and that I don’t get to see him often. Make Stoogles understand. I usually start to get a little defensive and mad in this part of a fight. Thats just me. -Moonstar◙◙◙
I agree Salley. he doesnt understand that you barelly see your dad. :( He is sad because you cant come to his party but I just think you have to talk it out with him and let him understand. ;)
♥♥♥`krystalkat~♥♥♥
I agree completely krystalkat! -Moonstar◙◙◙
thanks. Im sure Stoogles will understand that Salley doesnt get to see her dad much and that this is way more important to her.
♥♥♥~krystalkat~♥♥♥
Yes. They just need to compromise with each other. I was on the W tales and they had a meeting and Cowabelle is upset and its not going well. Salley sugested that they do it earlier but…. so far so not good. :( They just need to make a new plan.
*Luv from LillyLuvie*
I totally agree with you guys. I wish that they would make up; I hate fighting.
~(*)sparklegirlLT(*)
Stoogles, listen up, I’m not going to say this again: This is not about YOU! You have never been my favorite, and with this, you never will either. And you can’t butter me up now either, Stoogs, ’cause I’m hopping mad!
It’s becoming the “dog with the hurt paw” scenario. Salley is too afraid to explain now, because whenever she tries, everyone cuts her off, and says something mean. She’s afraid to take that step, because she knows it will hurt
I don’t think she’s afraid to share it. I think that if she tries to explain to Stoogles he’ll just ignore her.
Yah.
Aww. My cat is on my back. My bengals love to jump on people’s backs. It is funny. So desperate for Bengal CATS now, I don’t care if it is eStore. -Moonstar◙◙◙
This is messed up. Salley hasn’t seen his dad in a while, and Stoogles doesn’t even care. I’m sure this will be another ‘Kinz story and every will get there way,right?(But Salley has 2 choices, come see her dad or stay with stoogles) BTW Are salley and stoogles boyfriend and girlfriend or something? Because stoogle is mad because of a silly gift exchange and a party. But family time is better.
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BTW I use to be Gameboy.
I would buy a Bengal Cat for sure. :)
~(*)sparklegirlLT(*)
I’m really sorry about that, Salley.
:) DreamsComeTrue :)
Salley, do what always works: comprimise. You’ll visit your dad over Christmas and you can throw Stoogles a little celebration at one of your houses.
Don’t feel sad or mad Salley. You and Stoogles will work things out eventually. I know that’s its hard where to choose where you will be going for Christmas, it happened to me last year. But it all worked out in the end. Just try to find a way to compropise with Stoogles. ;) Maybe you will find a way to go to both of the places. ;)
*Luv from LillyLuvie*
If you log in and look at w-tales, it’s a step ahead, and now Stoogles has complained to the rest of the kinz, and now Cowabelle is mad at Salley too. This is outrageous. Lots of kids have turned on Northwestern for things like this. Northwestern is furious right now, in fact, she’s not commenting until she calms down
Oh yah, and I have something in common with you Salley! I am mad at my BFF too. She befriended this girl. Then there was some stuff that happened then she was all like mean and stuff, and I know I should try to forgive her because she has something different about her, but then I am mad at my BFF because we keep fighting about it. -Moonstar◙◙◙
Im also mad at my bestie for befriending my #1 enemy. Now theyre BFF’s and Im out of EVERYTHING. My BFF doesnt even call me anymore. Its why I didnt comment yesterday, because i was steaming mad. They even went to the movies together to see the movie I always wanted to see (and Im going to tomorrow). I still cant believe she did this to me. I guess I understand you Salley. ~KK♥
Listen up you guys who are having problems with your bffs. You are not their king or queen! let them do what they want! who cares if they be friends with your enemy. i am sure that your bff still likes you. please don’t fight with your bff. they can be friends with your enemy and you can be friends with them still. it should not ruin your friendship.
krystalkat, try to explain to your friend how you feel. If she really was your bff before then she should not just drop you like you are a mushy apple. i hope this helps. webkinzy
I think Stoogles is being extremely mean because Salley hasn’t seen her dad for a long time! Ever since they got divorced it’s been hard (thank goodness my parents aren’t divorced yay!)! BTW Moonstar have you told an adult about this? Please try and get help, that’s really awful! And Northwestern things will work out! Please post what you will but I don’t want to see comments like that especially if they’re making the person typing them feel bad! I agree with Salley COMPLETELY. BYE hope your day rules!
-PHN
My best friend the one and only. Is 6 years younger than me. She has a split family, and she goes to her dad’s every year for Christmas. I don’t get to see her. Shure I’m upset, but I understand. It’s just a thing you have to do with split family. Don’t be that way stoogles. I have learned to deal with it. She also goes the hole summer. This is sarahandlacey take on it. ;-)
Stoogles has it backwards. HE is the one being selfish :!: Instead of being happy for his “best friend” because she gets to see her father, he’s all worried that now HIS party will be ruined and that HE won’t be happy. Christmas is about giving(NOT getting) and bringing joy to others. NOT being selfish :!: :(
Have A Great Day :!: -Serene :mrgreen:
I completly agree. He’s being selfish. Salley hasn’t spent a Christmas with her father in i think it was seven years! Like Serene said, Christmas is about giving instead of getting. Stoogles should bring Salley the gift of him being happy for her instead of thinking about what he doesn’t get (Salley on Christmas.) He’s worried that he’s having a party and she won’t be there. The rest of the Kinz are worried about a gift exchange. They wouldn’t even change the date! It could be later instead. Better late than never. And the way Cowabelle’s been acting, she’s probably freaking out about getting one less present. They all should be understanding.
Tranquillity to all,
Vampz4Ever
I agree with everyone commenting here. I mean, I get how Stoogles could be disappointed, but he is taking it way to far. Its Salleys decision, and I know children whose parents split up, and it is really hard on them. Its not even Salleys fault that her dad and mom divorced! To be honest with you, I think its family first friends second.
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Have A Great Day :!: -Serene :mrgreen:
i am vampz4ever earlier today i was too lazy to log in. But you have it right oldwoofie. Salley being with her dad which she hasn’t spent a christmas with in SEVEN YEARS! According to the Wtales Stoogles says and i quote “WHAT!? You can’t leave then! The googles Christmas party is on the twentieth and you ALWAYS come. Plus we always do the ‘kinz gift exchange on the twenty third. And we visit each other on christmas eve! You can’t go to your dad’s!” Then salley explains how she wants to go and she’s excited and how she hasn’t spent christmas with her dad in seven years and then stoogles says coldly “Well i hope you have a good time because i know i won’t be having very much fun at all. I didn’t think you were so selfish Salley, you’ve completely ruined my holidays!” Then salley says “No Stoogles- i didn’t mean to.” and then stoogles angirly says “Well congratulations! you did! i don’t even want to celebrate if you’re not going to be around. I thought you’d feel the same way about me, since we’re best friends and all, but i guess i was wrong.” then he hung up the phone. I kinda see stoogles point, but he’s taking it too far. Salley wants to see her dad, she still loves her friends, and stoogles is still her best friend, but she would hate that she would have to wait another whole year to spend christmas with her dad, and he might have to cancel again. So stoogles is just being cold, rude, and making salley feel bad.
Christmas is somthing you should spend with YOUR family Salley, not his family! I can’t wait till christmas! *hopping your way* -bunny-[:
me to if my friend said that i would so understand!
Stoogles is totally acting mean!
WELL! i agree with you, krystalkat, i don’t think he understands. anyway, i LOVE my christmas day!!! we ALWAYS go to my grandma’s house, and we see all our cousins, (they’re there too) and we spend almost the whole day there.
Crazy gal :mrgreen: