Dear Salley,
It’s your old dad with a big question: would you like to come and spend Thanksgiving with me? I would love to have you come out here for a few days. We can go to the museum, visit the family, and even go for ice cream every night after dinner. What do you think? I really hope you say yes.
Love,
Dad
Dear Dad,
Mom and I were planning on spending Thanksgiving here in Kinzville, but I guess I could ask her if I could go see you instead. We could always do Thanksgiving when I get back. I would like to see you, and all of the stuff you have planned sounds like so much fun! Let me just check with her and I’ll get back to you.
Love,
Salley
Dear Mom,
Dad just asked me if I could spend Thanksgiving at his house. I don’t like to bug you while you’re at work, but I think I should let him know if it’s OK with you or not. So…what do you think? Can I go and have Thanksgiving with dad?
Love,
Salley
Dear Salley,
I was planning on us having Thanksgiving together. I thought maybe you and I could go for a walk in the morning, and then do some crafts in the afternoon while we wait for dinner to cook. Ms. Cowoline invited us to come over for dessert at Cowabelle’s house and I said we would. I really don’t think we should change our plans now. I think you should stay in Kinzville for Thanksgiving, dear.
But, of course, it’s your decision. If you would rather go and spend Thanksgiving with your dad, just let me know.
Love,
Mom
Dear Diary,
Ugh, I’m having such a big problem! I was planning on spending Thanksgiving in Kinzville with my mom (like I usually do), but this year my dad asked if I could come and spend Thanksgiving with him. So I asked my mom if that was OK and she basically said that she had a ton of fun stuff planned for me and that if I really wanted to, I could go and see my dad. But…she just made me feel so guilty with her email!
I don’t know what I want to do. In a perfect world, both of my parents would spend Thanksgiving with me. But my parents can’t do that. So I guess it’s up to me to choose. Mom or dad? Which one do I want to spend the holiday with?
Love,
Salley
What a cute story! She should go to her dad’s! I hope she does!
I think maybe you should spend the day with your mom and your dad said a few days so spend the next day having a late thanksgiving with your dad.
I’d say dad. You don’t live with him…unlike your mom. It is your decision though. It seems like dad really wants to see you! If you didn’t visit him now…you might not have another chance in a LONG time. So…I vote dad! But it’s totally up to you Salley. Do what you think is best. ;) ~Stealthy
Compromise! Do the real thing with your mom, then after with your dad? I feel sad for you Salley. :( -SM ⚪⚫⚪
Salley, maybe you should stay with your Mom, I understand you love your Dad very much, but I understand the problem. Maybe you could spend half and half of Thanksgiving each day. But maybe you could have REAL Thanksgiving with your mom and then a Thanksgiving Day with your Dad on a planned day that week! I hope this helps!
Salley, ask your mom if you could have an early Thanksgiving with her. Change your plans a little, and then go to your dad’s for his Thanksgiving. Because if you do the Thanksgiving with your mom after with your dad, your mom might feel like you just want to not hurt her feelings. But if you do it earlier, your mom will see that you just want to do Thanksgiving with both of them. Does anyone else think that makes sense?
Agreed! I hate seeing poor Salley in this situation… I think it would work out quite well this way, lightpapa!
Don’t do anything yet, Salley. Wait for your mom to get home, give her a little while to unwind, then ask if you and she can talk. Tell her how much you love both her and your dad. If you usually spend Thanksgiving with your mom, this is a chance for your dad and you to have that time together. Your parents need to put you first, and I’m sure they will. I think your mom just needs a little time to get used to the idea.
Blimey, well put!
I think you should go with your dad. Your mom did not put pressure on you but you do live with her. Go with your dad for a change. -LiveLaughLove
yeah i agree too
You should go to your dad’s. It’s not like you have every day to spend with him, unlike your mom. You live with her. Anyone else agree?
I agree salley, you should to your dad’s
Salley, why not have your parents together? Tell Dad to meet you in some place, and tell Mom you’d rather hang in that same some place. Then you’ll get together, the 3 of you, and find something fun to do together! ♥Gabriella♥
What if you spend Thanksgiving in Kinzville, then spend the next weekend with your dad? After all you only see him once in a while.
i agree with all of you people. salley, go visit your dad. you see your mom every day and already spent like a couple of thanksgivings with her. :D BB
I feel bad for you, Sally. But, I might have an idea! Host a Thanksgiving Party, inviting your father, mother, Cowabelle, and any other friends and family. Then, the day after that, go to your fathers’ house and spend time with him, then the next day, do the same with your mother. That way you can spend time with both of the people you love. Hope it works!
i agree with u sally should do what u said
Here’s how it should be, Salley. Spend half of the day with your dad, then spend the other half with your mom. I see, you love both yourparents, and you should. Spend Thanksgiving with both of them. I’m not sure if that’ll work great for you, but you should just try. Spend time with both your parents. ✖Chicago Made✖
Hey, guys. Sorry I haven’t been on. @Chicago Made – I agree with you. Salley, spend time with both your parents. Maybe do what @Chicago Made said, which was spend half the day with your dad, then your mom. ;) Yeah, I don’t know if that’ll work great either. Just be with both your parents, Salley. That way, they won’t feel left out. Parents feel that way sometimes, and they don’t even admit they do. -✰Spac3te☾hn✪✰
Aw Salley you should go to your dad’s. Your mom is with you everyday, and your dad… spend some time with him at Thanksgiving this year! ~CC~
Salley you should go to your dad’s. You don’t see him everyday, unlike your mom. But, of course, it’s your decision. ~*Star*~
its kind of weird how we have usernames that have star in it. do you play webkinz and is it your username for it? i want to add you as a friend:) Sstar (*.*
I think you should invite your dad to come to Kinzville for Thanksgiving!
i think she should celebrete thanksgiving with her dad the day before thanksgiving, so her mom doesnt have to re-scedual her plans and she would get to see her dad.
I AM GOING THROUGH THE SAME THING, SALLEY. MY PARENTS JUST GOT DIVORCED, AND I HAVE TO CHOSE WHO I SPEND THE HOLLIDAYS AND MY 16TH B-DAY WITH. :( HONESTLY, I HAVE NO ADVICE…… ~RKLOVER~
I KNOW WHAT IT’S LIKE TO HAVE YOUR MOM (OR DAD) GUILT YOU FOR WANTING TO SPEND TIME WITH THE OPPOSITE PARENT………~RKLOVER~ ADD ME kaynay2