Wow, you guys. Today is one for the record books. I, Alex Tiger, actually had a fight with someone. Normally I don’t like arguing, so I’ll just go along with what someone else wants. But after my insane shopping trip with April yesterday? I had to stand my ground when she wanted to return to the mall AGAIN today.
No. I just could not do it.
So I told her that if she wanted to hang out, we’d have to do something I wanted to do. Like visit the museum or walk through the Magic Forest or SOMETHING. I was even up for going shopping, if it meant we could go to the Curio Shop.
And you know what April said? She said I was being selfish. ME! She said that I live in Kinzville and could go anywhere at any time, so I should do what she wanted when she was visiting.
I tried explaining that friendship means doing what BOTH parties want, not just one. April wouldn’t hear anything of it, though. She whipped out her phone and started texting someone. I asked her what she was writing and who she was writing to. She said she was texting her best friend and telling her how ridiculous I was acting.
ME? Acting ridiculous?
Also, wasn’t I her best friend?
Not anymore, obviously.
April said she was giving me one more chance: come to the mall with her, or forget about seeing her again. I told her I couldn’t stand going to the mall for one more minute.
She stomped out of my house and slammed the door.
I would like to say that I was sad to see her go, but I wasn’t. I’m just sad that the old April seems to be gone for good.
alex, april’s just getting in over her head. obviously shes the one being selfish and should do something thats intresting to you as well. possibly doing two things at the same time? don’t worry about it! shes growing……. april should relize what shes getting at and apologise to you. just don’t bother with her! play with someone whos actully dependable to be with! like the kinz.
I know how you feel. I am currently in a fight with my dramatic ex-best friend! I hope you make up! April needs to apologize!
Alex, don’t even bother with her anymore,anyone who is that mean is not the best person to be friends with or even tag along with~Random reader
wow! April is being selfish
I’m sorry to hear that Alex, personally if I had to choose I would rather go to a Curio Shop or a museum instead of a mall. April sounded like a fun person/webkinz before she changed. Good Luck Alex!
I’m very sorry, Alex, but I think you did the right thing. I don’t necessarily enjoy confrontation either, but there comes a time when each of us has to take a stand. You did what April wanted all day yesterday, and gave her choices for today – which was more than she gave you. For her, it was the mall or nothing. There was no compromise. That’s not friendship. Maybe she will think about it and realize what she has done.
Well said zeph317. Alex spent all yesterday being treated more like her servant than her friend. He needed to take a stand so he wouldn’t get that treatment again. It seems she no longer values his friendship. If she does, she owes Alex an apology for for her behavior yesterday and today. ~DP
Wow.
Alex, you need to understand that, she has other friends too. April also may have changed too. But, wouldn’t you expect her to want to go to the mall? I mean,I bet all girls like going to the mall. After all, there is sports stores(for the girls who love sports). You need to apologize to April. And make a plan saying that you both hang out all day, and half the day you two are at the mall, and the other half doing something what you like. April wants to do what she wants because she’s a guest. And whenever I have guests visiting my house, we also do what they wanna do first. Because where I live, they might not get to do all the things there all the time. ~MockingJay~
A compromise might work in a situation like this, Alex. Tell April you would like to spend time doing what she would like and then spend some time doing what you would like. Set a time limit however, before hand and things should work out fine. The point being you would like to spend time with her!
Alex, It’s not your fault April is kinda being bratty nice compromises though, I just think you need to find other friends
Pretty much, understand that every person your friends with has to have other friends, which means April has other friends, Alex. I mean, is it that horrible to go to the mall with her? Sure, at least plan something where you spend time with her at the mall then do something that you like, then do something that you both like to do. You guys gotta have some things in common, but have you even talked to her about that? You should, if you haven’t. Plus, I think that you should apologize to April. And first none of this is really your fault, but you still should apologize to her. I mean, get along for once and do what you guys like to do together. Girls like shopping, that’s just how they are. I’m a girl, but I don’t shop all that much for 6 hours or so (Most of my other girlfriends do while I just do my things with other things I enjoy. For one, I like being artistic). Lol, and why would she admit to you that you’re being ridiculous? Mostly, I think your both being kinda ridiculous, no offence, But you need to apologize and plan something with her. People also chance, and April has changed…get used to it, Alex. Friends are like this once in a while, but you should work it out and do what she wants. I mean, she IS the girl after all and the girl should do what she wants to do first. ✖Chicago Made✖
Really, all I can say is that…I hope Alex does apologize to April. -SOAD Chick
Actually, they both need to apologize. April deserves to have other friends and do what she likes, but that doesn’t mean that she can control Alex and she definitely shouldn’t say those things to him. That hurts. April is being selfish. Alex could have been nicer about saying why he didn’t want to go to the mall, but there was no reason for April to be so mean.
Boys! Alex, April has a point! She won’t be here for long, and you’ll have to understand that. Maybe when you go over to her city, she’ll let you go wherever you want. Try that! ~CC~
I get what @Chicago Made is saying, but I do think that April was being kinda rude texting to her new best friend while she was supposed to be hanging out with Alex. And you really don’t say “I’m telling my best friend how ridiculous your being.” That’s just plain rude. Plus, you don’t do that in someone else’s house. I mean, THATS ridiculous…..~~~~*Uggluver79*~~~~
They were both being rude for sure and they need to fix this by apologizing, I think. @Chicago Made – I get what your exactly saying. And what April texted to Alex just seems rude, I can’t beileve she’d even admit that to him, it’s just rude. This is all just a bunch of ridiculousness right now. I mean, April shouldn’t be the boss around Alex like that because it’s not like she’s his mother or something, but she was taking it a whole rude direction over Alex. Just wrong. -SOAD Chick
@SOAD Chick – Yep. And yeah, April isn’t a person to tell what Alex should do with her and she shouldn’t play the rules she wants to play. April has just been plan rude to Alex…I mean I agree, the text didn’t seem nice at all. If only Alex and April could handle this out the “good” way instead of the “ridiculous” way. :roll: ✖Chicago Made✖
Wow. That’s all I can really say. April is being really rude. She has to realize that some people don’t always want to go to the mall everyday, and how does she have the money to do that everyday. April should apologize to Alex. -Smiley Face :)
FRIENDSHIPS ARE A GIVE AND TAKE, GUYS, WEATHER U R A BOY OR A GIRL. ALEX DID WHAT APRIL WANTED TO DO FOR A WHOLE DAY; ITS APRILS TURN TO GIVE AND DO WHAT ALEX WANTS. I AM TOTAL GIRLY GIRL; IM 15, I LOVE TO SHOP AND STUFF TOO…… U WILL BE OK…… BUT DONT FEEL BAD FOR WHAT U DID.
ditto to Chicago Made!
Aw sorry to hear that Alex! But you have the Kinz at least. They’ll understand. ♥
April, that was really rude! How an she even afford to go to the mall everyday. Oh well. I’m a tomboy, and I hate to shop
What ever happened to the fun, adventurous, kind little cheeky monkey I used to know? Uncalled for April I think you owe Alex an apology :| ~ ATeenageWolf <\3 I hate posting broken hearts it ruins my day… :(
April is acting kind of selfish herself. When me and my friends are debating on where to go, we throw stones. We put 1 area as Choice 1, and another Choice 2, so on. Then, we throw stones, narrowing it down, or coming to a final conclusion. After we narrow it down, we all say why we want to go to this place, and we start compromising. Try that with April, Alex. ~*Star Shine*~
REALLY April?!? SO WHAT If He Lives In Kinzville, He Cant Follow You Around Like A PACK MULE All Day! You Have To Be nice Or You Wont Be Invited To Kinzville!!!