Hey there, Webkinz buddies. Today has been a pretty rough one for your old pal Ella.
I was at the W Shop, just picking up some ingredients for dinner, when I happened to pass a certain PJ Collie in the ice cream aisle. And she wasn’t alone! She was there with Amanda Panda (hello, Amanda HAS a best friend already. Kimmy, maybe you need to remind her of that). I heard them say something about a sleepover and having ‘the best time’ at a party last night.
I can’t believe her. And I can’t believe how easy I was to replace. I’m feeling pretty glum, chums. What do you do to cheer up when you’re down in the dumps?
People can have more than one best friend. Ella and Pollie Jean Collie need to sit down and have a talk-to-talk with each other. They are both misunderstanding each other. What do you guys think.
I think she should should just talk to her, but until then, she should try to calm down. What do you think?
Yeah! I agree with Green5205.
I go onto Webkinz or play with my webkinz. when i am feeling down :)
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Maybe you should read what has been written here, since you like to talk so much, listening is the best quality of a friend. Also, thanks from breaking the story line in the other page.
HEY that was rude Jeez!! Moonstar talks a lot more than her and you dont yell at Moonstar! Why is that? Everybody’s equal OK? Thanx :)
-Poppydawn*
ps Moonstar i didnt mean that you talk too much i was just saying that you are popular and dont get yelled at but this girl/or boy posts one time and she/he gets jumped on. I wasnt trying to be mean tho :)
I agree with poppydawn*
Don’t forget Dawnkit. And Honeyfern. DesertClan attacked, they declared war!! The gathering is tonight, you wanted to bring me, Feathertail, Icestream, Beechpaw, Moonstream, Flarepaw and Jadewing? I don’t know what we will say.
That’s happened to me before ! I got through it by hanging out with my other friends . They cheered me up !
It’s okay Ella! You’re still a good friend. PJ and Amanda might be friends but you’re PJ’s Bff.
yes, your right. they can be bff’s if they won’t to.
you still are friends with PJ, maby they just wonted to hong out with just the two of them.
dont woory ella! If some one EVER does that to you, if its really mean, just break up. Wacky star is right. if pj does that, you shoud break up. Talk to Kimmy, and see how she feels. You probly feel the same way sad mad!
Well I would treat myself to something I love the most and share it with my very best friends!
Ella, ya know u can have MORE THAN 1 friend. PJ has other friends BUT YOUR PJ’S BFF.
Well, when i get upset i usually go in my room, put a CD in my stereo and listen to it on full blast until it makes me feel better. I always listen to sad songs to realize i’m not alone. After 2 or 3 sad songs i listen to happy songs so i can feel happy about myself.
thats exactly what i do!!!!!!!! :-D
well,
when i get mad i usually start getting mad at everyone until my mom tells me to go to my room and then i punch my pillow until i fell better! lol
~*~OceanStar~*~
P>S> Add me at Jasdog i try to accept all invites!
and if punching a pillow doesn’t work, pretend the pillow is the person you’re mad at!!!
~*~OceanStar~*~
I have never done that! However good that feels, I wouldn’t do that because you are teaching yourself to hate that person even more. I always ignore that though, I punch my pillow all the time to let some anger out. And sometimes, when it is hot and sunny, I will lay on my bed and think about everything that has happened. -Moonstar♣♣♣
Oceanstar are you also Blossomstar? You’re not are you?
oops forgot to sign :)
-Poppydawn*
:( :( :( :( :( I just notived that everyone’s name ends w\ star! Star this, star that, star star star!!!!!! I’m getting sick of it and it make me feel bad. I like my name ut if you agree w\ me say so!!!
-GerbilVision
I agree, I – well Silverstar, but I am her, came up with the ‘star idea. I hate that peopel copy me/Silverstar with the whole ‘star thing. I mean, can’t people be creative for once!? -Moonstar♠♠♠
Thank you, Moonstar. It makes ME feel bad that everyone’s name starts w\ star. I bet you’re sick of it too. No offense to you, Moonstar, but I hate th star thing and that everyone has it. And next year I have to go camping. I mean, I wanna go camping, but in COLORADO???? I don’t like Colorado at all. I wanna meet my aunt, cousins, niece and nephew I have never even SEEN before!
Meet me in the grey wolf article. I need to ask you a private question in there.
-GerbilVision
Hey Colorado is pretty cool. And to make you feel better Moonstar, they are not ALL ending their names in star bc of you. Star is a nice way to end a name :) I didnt end mine that way bc i noticed it and wanted to be unique. Some people came up with some really cool names too- Blossomstar, Dawnstar etc. Those are pretty.
-Poppydawn*
ps You are pretty cool :) and its sad that people copy you when you are OBVIOUSLY really upset about it :( PLEASE STOP GUYS!!
I got my name from a TV show. There was a guy named Morning Star. I decided to make it a girl’s name by putting Dawn instead of Morning. Sorry if I hurt anyone’s feelings. I honestly didn’t mean to. -*Dawnstar*
That’s perfectly alright. You do not need to feel bad. It does not hurt my feelings in the least. So don’t worry about it.
Thanks, Crystal. -*Dawnstar*
yah you have nothing to apologize for Dawnstar. if you noticed i said that your name was pretty :).
I AGREE! There are so many stars. I also took your advice and I am going to use both the names you suggested! Look for me as Streaming Silver too:)
~SavvyShopper~
Don’t feel bad. :(
getting more mad at that person is just what you need though, you let out all ur emotion and then you hav no anger left in you in a few min. so you and ur friend just make out because all ur anger is gone.
I learned to do that from my second best friend in school. It lets my anger out. – Earthstar**
ITS OKAY ELLA , THEY ARE NOT YOUR REAL FRIENDS IF THEY DO STUFF LIKE THAT
You are right.Ella, it is time to move on. Find a good friend and stick with her.If somehow P.J. comes back, forgive her and remember,don’t leave the new friend you made for an old one.
FIrst of all, don’t jump into conclusions. Second of all, why didn’t you casually walk up to her and be like wassup? Besides, maybe kimmy isn’t the only one who needs to remind somebody about being best friends, try it yourself. :) <3
Here is a little something my friend told me. If you forgive her thats great! But you know if she doesn’t forgive you thats HER fault [sorry for the caps.] It really is just think about for a sec.. but maybe kimmy feels left out so maybe if it doesn’t workout hang out with her. icecream!
When this happened to me, I kept my mouth shut for a few days, hoping that we could still be friends. I would often write in my diary, letting all my emotion spill onto the pages. I am in love with the Warriors series. Those books take me in to the Warrior cats world so I would read those and feel like one of the cats, that would make me feel like I could escape from all the my BFF was doing to me. That solved nothing but it made me feel better. Get a good book, one that will captivate you, make you focus on the book so you can forget about PJ and the misery she’s brought you. I tried to hang out with other friends. Maybe Kimmy feels left out, go with her because Amanda seems to have forogtten her. Your friendship with PJ is sinking- fast. I sadly still have flashbacks, tears streaming down my cheeks, my BFF snickering and lauging at me. . .
-Moonstar♠♠♠
i do that too sometimes. actually, i usually read until i calm down.
I can totally relate to the BFFs ditching you story. It’s happened to me 3 times actually :(
-Poppydawn*
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When this happened to me, I found another one of my friends. Later, I called up my friend and asked her if she still wanted to be my friend. She said she did, an she wasn’t tying to exclude me. You see, her friend was being mean to her, and she got her back, and was being mean to me without knowing it. Just talk to her and ask her: Do you still wanna be my friend??????????
-GerbilVision
Well there is only one thing to do now. Ask her for forgivness. Ya I know “What?! She should apologize not me!!!!!” but you have to, its bitter but it will turn sweet. If she doesn’t accept, don’t get mad. Just say “Well I aplogized, now its up to you.” Then quietly walk away. See if that changes anything. If it doesn’t, then just move on. Make more friends and enjoy them. Don’t let her ruin your life, and if you apologize you will be guilt free, she will be guilty of being mean only.
I read and create things all the time. It always makes me feel better. You said it perfectly Moonstar, you escape into another world. Reading always calms me down, and sometimes when I write or paint, I also can feel better. :) I’m sorry about what happened with your friend, Ella. But also, remember that P.J. Collie might also just have been trying to make some other friends, but not wanting to dump you. Maybe you should talk to her about it, and see what she has to say. Amanda does have a best friend, Kimmy, but that doesn’t mean she’s owned! P.J. is your friend, but you can’t not let her have any other friends! If you talk to P.J. about the sleepover, she’ll probably invite you. If she doesn’t, and is mean, then move on. It is hard to have a friend that dumps you over someone else, but you can’t let her takeover your life because of that. :) I hope this helps!
My best friend pretty much did this to me. It’s a little annoying. And she says she’s not doing it and I’m just jealous. Okay, then don’t let me be in your talent show act, just go have fun with your new best friend. (you know who you are) They told me that I couldn’t be in their act because I don’t have a little sister who dances like theirs, who are also going to do it with them. They ALSO told me that I’m better at singing by myself. Okay. Wow, I didn’t realize how mad I was until now. Sorry. Sometimes I go crazy.
Reading really does make you feel better. It makes you the character, so you can be them and have your personal issues wait until your ready to deal with them.
Agreed! Reading always takes me to another world, and I feel calm. I love reading too! Good advice. I’m kinda posting all over with my new name.
~SavvyShopper~
that is too bad did they say sorry?
Hey Ella,
I totaly know how you feel!
But maybe P.J. just wanted to make a new friend!
I think that you should read a book and pertend that you’re one of the characters, that always makes me feel better!
If that doesn’t work then get your fave treat and take a walk to the park!
Hope this helps!
-iluvchocolate
P.S.- I also think that Moonstar’s adivce helps too! :)~(:
How do you do those star things?
i agree so much bratzz1 told me to tell u she posted that u r in first place right now
Hey, that’s mean! Maybe PJ just has another friend! Not everyone has just one friend, you know! I bet PJ still cares about you, Ella. Anyway, if she doesn’t, there’s still a TON of nice people waiting for a good friend! Don’t get mad at her.
Something like that happened to me, after a while I realized she was still my BEST friend. She was just checking up on her other friends. Or on the other hand, maybe someone else has the same problem…. and you can get a new friend!
Start a new friendship, maybe with Kimmy. Call PJ and tell her how you feel, better yet, meet her face to face with a gift, like a ice cream cone, and walk to the park together with PJ, you, Kimmy, and Amanda!
Exactly! I mean, come on, why can’t you have two friends? Maybe she was getting a bit sick of hanging out with one friend and hung out with another for a little bit.
this whole thing is just a result of an easily solved misunderstanding.
maybe you should have compromised about your party. maybe invite 30 or so people, and have each one bring in something to share with everyone else.
but now, its too late for that. what you should do is try talking to her – when she’s not busy – and explain to her why you wanted just a few friends at the party, and maybe apologize that you wouldn’t listen to her ideas. and don’t say that it’s not your fault, that you shouldn’t have to apologize, because it’s both of your faults. you should have listened to each other, and talked it out to get to an outcome both of you are okay with.
Agreed.
You need to replace her! She’s not your real friend, at least be in the market for a new BFF beacuse they could be a back up if something like this happens again. Well, is anyone else at your school left out? If so see if you have some things in common. You can’t be this stressed about something like this, just replace her like she did with you.
move on! PJ is stuck up! YOU GO ELLA GIRL!
Ella, if Iwere u I would talk this out to kimmy and see if she is left out.. if she is then u and her go to the party and crash it and ask amanda and P.J. if they are still friends.
-Silver Wolf
She is snubbing you. Don’t let it get to you, sometimes that is what people who are mean want. What you should do is make other friends and when you cool down a bit ask her for your forgiveness. Yeah its super bitter and VERY hard, but sometimes that is how you end a fight. I hope you get it right :)
Ella, don’t worry much: They probably are just trying to bug you to get you to hang out again. Its happened to me before. My BFF Valessa started hanging out with Brianna. Now we are all BFF’s again. When something like this happens to me, I don’t tell anyone and just live in sadness. Then, sooner or later, we’re friends again! I thought Brianna had entirely replaced me, but guess what? They are both like my Never-Born-In-My-Family sisters! Madison is another sister, and Ethan is like my brother. We all have one awesome, amazing friendship. They are my best friends ever, and made moving from CT to FL way easier for me to handle. Also, please don’t listen to people who say, “Oh, why not get a new BFF? you better!” They are wrong. Go up to PJ, say your sorry, ask if your still friends. Then, ask Amanda Panda if she wants to be friends. So please, PLEASE listen to me.
I’m still on Ella’s side of this fight.
ok. she can have more than one bestfriend I do. I have three. at least. Amanda and PJ are friends and u don’t need to tell then who they can be friends with. They can have sleepovers if they want to.
Just because P.J. found a new friend does not mean she replaced you. It just means she has found another person who shares the same interests. Maybe you, Ella, should go and talk to P.J. and Amanda. Tell them that you want to be included. Stand up for yourself. Tell them how you feel. I am sure they will understand. BTW I am going to Florida in eleven days! It is gonna take us nine hours to get there!
No. Don’t worry your overeating. Sure you fell bad but they can hang out with other people too. Maybe there could only be two people at the sleepover. I’m sure there just starting to be friends but Collie would never replace her best friend. Maybe it is you who is turning on your friend……..
Hey, don’t be mean! Maybe PJ was overly excited and said something she didn’t mean to. Don’t get mad at her, Ella.
You should go talk to PJ and see what really was going on. I’m sure PJ is still your best friend! ON the other hand, maybe it is time to move on. If that’s what happens then find someone out there waiting to have a GREAT friend like you!
Hope you feel better
– Sadie :)
Ella don’t worry it’ll be okay, I think you should just talk to PJ and tell her how you feel, PJ probably feels sad just like you but she just doesn’t want to show it, so she’s hanging out with other people to get her mind off of how bad she feels about the fight, so just talk to her about it over strawberries because strawberries always make me feel better when I’m sad. P.S Don’t ever think you’re easy to replace you’re the best and please don’t forget that.
Hmm… I would probably go up to PJ and kick her in the shins. Then, I would apologize to Amanda Panda and remind her that Kimmy is her best friend, and PJ should stop being a whiny brat.
I know, it isn’t the best solution, but when I’m upset I just let it out.
Don’t worry, Ella! I’ll be your friend. We’ll go by their house sometime and talk about all the stuff WE did together! Then they’ll see how they treated you!
I think that plumpy would be a good friend for you, Ella!