Hey there, Webkinz buddies. Today has been a pretty rough one for your old pal Ella.
I was at the W Shop, just picking up some ingredients for dinner, when I happened to pass a certain PJ Collie in the ice cream aisle. And she wasn’t alone! She was there with Amanda Panda (hello, Amanda HAS a best friend already. Kimmy, maybe you need to remind her of that). I heard them say something about a sleepover and having ‘the best time’ at a party last night.
I can’t believe her. And I can’t believe how easy I was to replace. I’m feeling pretty glum, chums. What do you do to cheer up when you’re down in the dumps?
Hey Ella! It’s okay! Nothing is wrong. P.J. Collie may be your best friend, but does that mean that
she can’t still hang out with other friends? It’s totally normal, Ella. P.J. Collie and Amanda are
most likely just friends. Sometimes, friends meet new people, and want to spend time with them, too.
P.J. Collie wasn’t trying to replace you or be mean, she just wanted to spend time with Amanda. Try calling
some of your other friends that you don’t spend time with much, and get together. You won’t feel glum anymore
because you have a new friend, and P.J. Collie will still be your very best friend. Also try getting together
with P.J. Collie, Amanda Panda, and some of your other friends, and you could throw a party! Then, no one
feels left out or excluded.
Ella, listen girl. Just because PJ has another friend DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS REPLACING YOU. It just means that she has more than a single friend. If you confront her about it, she will probably decide that you are too needy. Maybe YOU need to get more friends, too. Also, even if she said that it was the best day ever does not mean that it actually WAS, she may have just been really excited about it. If you are truly distrought about this, you should maybe host a party and invite not only PJ, but also Amanda, Kimmy, and some other people. This way, you can all become good friends. Besides, did PJ SAY that Amanda is her new best friend? NO! So, calm down.
Gee, it sounds like a rough situation. When you mentioned PJ hanging out with Amanda at school and ignoring you, I figured she was trying to make you feel jealous. She is probably upset about not being friends with you right now, and she probably thinks about you a lot. Hanging out with Amanda probably makes her feel a little bit better, but she’s also probably thinking about how bad it will make you feel as well. Did you ever think how it might have hurt her for you to tell the entire Webkinz Newz World about your fight and about how angry and hurt you were. I understand needing advice and support, but, when it comes to relationships, it is best not to spread it around with acquaintances and complete strangers. I think PJ is acting immature and mean, but you are not being completely right by sharing your pain with the world. I suggest you go to one of your parents for help. Parents are great for giving helpful advice and support. You will find that they too have had problems with friends before, and they can help you to see your problem form a new perspective, as well as give you advice. The hardest step in any argument, whether you feel you are wright or wrong, is to apologize for what you have done wrong or even for what your friend may think you have done wrong. Being the first to apologize opens up some trust with your friend, and she will be more willing to listen to you and might even apologize herself.
I am sure that it was a misunderstanding! But if PJ keeps ignoring you then find Kimmy and help her!
My friends always help me!! Go up to PJ and ask if you can talk too her! But if she is just being mean don’t give her a fun time! Just ignore her too!!! My friends tend too do this a lot so find a new friend!!
Exactly~!!!!
find a new best friend
to ella,
To PJ, don’t let a summer party get in the way of a perfect friendship. You might say amanda panda is you BFF now. she isn’t. Sure, i am SURE that she is a great friend (No hard feelings amanda) but there will NEVER EVER be as good a connection between you and her as you and ella. just saying
Sincerly,
Ashesmysweet
Dear Ella,
I know how you feel, happened lots to me. instead of trying to fix it, I just listened to sad songs on my MP3. It actually helped me to cry some. One day I felt really happy, even though all day I’d been really sad. Strange things can happen. Just realize, if your friend starts to ignore you, just realize there’s someone out there who’s gonna make you even happier!
Obiash
Sometimes when I am mad at something I just do something calm.Like play piano,read,swim,and sometimes I just ride my bike.If PJ is going to act like this then maybe she isn’t worth your time after all.I am pretty sure you have lots more friends you can look to. :)
YA ICECREAM ALWAYS WORKS!
COME ON GIRL!
When your feeling down, throw your own kind of party somewhere in public ( but also a place where people wont crash the party) and make sure p.j sees. Maybe she’ll realize that she was being unreasonable.