Hey friends – I’m so glad I’ve got you guys to talk to. Why? Because PJ and I had a ginormous fight.
It’s all about the end-of-year party. She just wouldn’t listen to my ideas. I just wanted to keep the party small and invite our closest friends. I think it’s more fun to host five or ten guests at my place. We could order pizza and watch movies and even roast marshmallows in the backyard. But noooo! She wants to have some gigantic bash in the park. “Let’s invite the whole wide world!” she said.
Seriously? I don’t want, like, eighty kids at the party. I don’t even KNOW eighty kids to invite. That’s insane! Plus, who’s going to buy the pizza for that many guests? Ugh! And then she called me a ‘homebody’ and ‘a downer’ and said I ‘needed to expand my horizons.’
Whatever! As if she’s the worldliest Webkinz. I can’t believe she said those things. I saw her at school yesterday and she wouldn’t even look at me – she just linked arms with Amanda Panda and walked in the other direction.
Did I over-react, friends? What did I do wrong?
You over-reacted big time! There are much better ways to work it out than fighting. Maybe you two could compromise? Take both of your ideas and meet somewhere in the middle. But first, you have to apologize. Be the bigger person. Admit your mistakes. If she’s really your best friend she won’t stay mad at you. She’s just trying to act like she’s happier without you at the moment. It won’t blow over by itself. Take some action Ella!
Great advice WebkinzGuru!!! I had a lot of fights with my friends before and I never thought of that!!! you are my advice teller!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-p
what i think you should do is she should not ignore you, but i also think if you are telling this to all webkinz, and they do not get invited, they will feel bad and lef out. now the right thing to do so that nobody’s feelings get hurt, you should invite everybody.mabey that is why pj said to invite everybody.you should also try to work things out with pj and you two should forgive eachother for arguing and her for ignoring, too . i hope this helped. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)
Ella i completely agree! Who could possibly buy pizza for eighty people! Whenever i have a party, i invite my closest friends and then we watch a movie and ect. And i also don’t think its fair that PJ wouldn’t even talk to you at school. It’s like she wanted her way and only her way or you could never be friends. I don’t think that’s true though. Maybe you should have looked at her point of view and she at yours. You could probably find an amount of people between what you were thinking.
Exactly! I mean, That Would Be A Lot Of Kinz Cash!
I tend to have my parties small, too. :) It’s a lot quieter, and nicer. I like to have my best friends around, and it’s more relaxing. Eighty is way too much! How could anyone even know eighty people? Ella’s right! Like FireWolves said about pizza for everyone, That Would Be A Lot Of Kinz Cash! :) I agree. I hope that P.J. and Ella make up here soon!
You should do both! Have the party in the parks and invite as many as PJ wants and then let your closest friends have a sleepover with you, then you can roast marshmallows and stuff.
Hmm, I do think eighty other kids is a little much. Why not bump it down to just twenty? It’ll still be a lot of people, but not too many. If you do that, everyone could pitch in for food and beverages. One person could order the pizza, someone else could supply water, another soda, another person a place for the party, somebody else for movies, another person for popcorn, etc. You probably get the idea. :) I hope you can compromise! I like the idea of having only a few people, but it should be fair. It won’t be too expensive because then everyone who comes to the party will pay for a little part of it. Not much money will be spent by everyone.
you shuld werk it out and become friends.
I think you were just giving out your opinion! I really can’t decide who is right, but I do not agree with how PJ ignored you! I think you should talk it out and maybe get someone elses opinion to help you decide! I hope everything turns out great!!
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Compromise! Let P.J. have the park party and just do snacks instead of a whole meal. Let her invite whoever she wants to invite. Go to her party and enjoy yourself —- don’t let feelings of annoyance or jealousy get in the way of having fun —- after all, having P.J. as a friend is more important than to let a party destroy it.
Then, you can have the party you wanted, with just a few friends, including P.J. You could get pizza for everyone since there won’t be too many people there. You can have a blast at both parties, without letting mere party plans ruin your friendship. This way, you can both be happy and have fun together! =)
I hope my advice helps, Ella!
~QueenVet
Just make a new friend or have a medium party, that has some people you aren’t as close to and some of your close friends, and have it at the house and park, try that
SAY WHY DON’T YOU COMPROMISE OR DO BOTH. YOU COULD HAVE THE PARTY YOU WANT AT YOUR PLACE WITH THE NUMBER OF PEOPLE YOU WOLD LIKE AND JOIN THE OTHER PARTY LATER IN THE DAY. AS FOR THE PIZZA INSTEAD, HAVE EVERYONE SOMETHING THEY LIKE AND EVERYONE WILL HAVE A GOOD TIME. THIS IS JUST ONE IDEA BUT I’S SURE YOU WILL HERE FROM OTHERS ABOUT MORE. GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN.
OMG! :P! Why must you people publicize fights? What kind of influence is this? -Moonstar*
I know! All it will do is make people put their fights with friends on the blog and, being one on the recieving end of the bad talk on blogs, it’s really cruel.
It’s weird seeing them post a fight on here…publically…but it is a part of life and I think they are trying to get kids to think about relationships and friendships on a deeper level. They are important in life! :)
what the heck is wrong with pj? she is such a terrible friend! i can’t beleive i used to be a fan of her! UGH!
Even though I am not a fan of hers she was always too girly.
So true! I think Ella should hang out with other gals!
Now, don’t get me wrong, I’m not supporting fights, and neither is Ganz. I think it’s important to understand that the world has problems, it’s not just “I’m going to spin the wheel of wow, la-di-da!” but there are certain problems with your friends you need to fix. Not everything is perfect. And I don’t know if PJ Collie is the bad one, I think that’s just what Ella portrays her as because she’s so frustrated with her. Have you read PJ Collie’s Post?
BTW- It’s Friendship Month. Seriously, can’t two teenagers be friends? I remember the last week of school in elementary school, my best friend and I had a “friendship week” type of thing where we wore matching outfits and stuff, (Kailey, if you’re reading this, LOL) but then we got in this big fight, but then we made up! So make up ALREADY PJ and Ella!
im sorry, this is just a thing for friendship month to show that you can compromise, people! i dont think that its any kind of influence for people to fight on the comments or in the fourm, but if they did that would be their problem and you don’t have to look at it.
I didn’t write that. I wasn’t even on the internet when that was written, I was at a berry-farm with some friends. This exact stuff happened to me!
Ok, so what you need to do is start maybe trying to find another friend that shares the same interests. Your friendship is going down big-time. PJ is being very, very ignorant of your feelings. You need to make it CLEAR that calling you a downer is NOT the way to go. Bring her to her scences and tell her that there are many problems with that many people. You can’t get enough people and someone would call the cops in 5 min. PJ shouldn’t have walked away, she seems to be jealous and intent to make you give into her ideas. Make sure that you work this out nicely. If she makes you feel bad, I am afraid you’ll have to say goodbye. -Moonstar*~!~!~!*
TMI Moonstar!!
Um, what does TMI mean? -Moonstar*~!~!~!*
Moonstar,
TMI means to much information. Hope this helps!
well Scottiedog i am tell ya right now my cousin Hayley she is bad because my mom said
that 1hour that she have to get ready to go with us to go to shopping with us and then when we got to her house she tried to open the door and then she was very mad then my mom locked the door and she dosen’t respect my mom so she have to say sorry or she is not gonna come to our house again
guys, y do YOU care if she tells about her going to the berry farm? a NICER thing to say would be “hey moonstar, was it fun at the berry farm? what did you do?” not “to much information moonstar” it’s not like she was telling about something gross! would you just get over it and leave her alone?
She was just telling us that she had fun with friends at a berry farm.
~abowlsby
how is that a tmi moment? she has a good point, big parties usually end in big trouble.
PJ is being really mean and not listening to ella. you are not over-reacting. she should be more considerate of you. i think you guys need to just talk it through, include ideas from both of your ideas so both of you are happy with the party. if that doesn’t work than throw two different parties. they can b at the same time or two different times if you want to go to each others.
For one thing to help solve the situation you should talk to Pj and try to understand her point of veiw then calmly explain yours. Then try to come up with a plan that fits both of your points of veiw. That might even mean having two party’s, but as long as you stay calm and try to understand each other you should be fine. Hope this helps. – Webkinz girl 45
What are you talking about?
I agree especially after what PJ called her like a downer, a homebody, and needing to expand her horizons. Calling Ella a downer is just plain rude. PJ needs to be a little nicer.
the real Moonstar,
I would really like to be friends with you. (I don’t know if you saw my other post.) Anyway, it seems like you don’t swear, cuss, call people names, and you try to work things out so everybody is happy. My sisters would also like to be friends with you. Our usernames are: me, 2929mott. sister 1, heatherrosem. sister 2, waterfordMI
Thanks ahead of time
Sure!! Thanks, I don’t cuss and would never do that. -Moonstar♥♥♥
hey moonstar why did you steal my hearts you had a star before like this * i had the hearts you cant coppy these hearts❥ ❥ ❥
so ha i dont like it when you copy so please stop go back to your star-mebelovin♥♥♥
PS: arent you moonSTAR* not moonheart mines makes since cause iam mebeLOVIN♥
Um, can you make it a little clearer on what you are trying to say? I don’ t really get it. Jeez, that is just my signature, I do it because it special to me and it marks a very special day. Tons of people use ♥, just because I started to use it doesn’t mean I ma trying to copy you, it isn’t like I am posting as you. Just because I use ♥♥♥ doesn’t mean I am Moonheart. Ok? I have the freedom to do what I want, you can’t change my right. And who cares if I coppied you with that 1 thing, I don’t see you saying that to other people. -Moonstar♥♥♥
wow mebelovin. we can all use hearts if we want to, we can all use stars too. the hearts aren’t only urs. moonstar was probably just trying out somrthing new, she probably didn’t mean to copy you
Thanks Webkinz for sticking up for me, just want to try something new because the stars, peopel can easliy coppy me if I use just stars.
P.S .I want to see if people will copy me as Silverstar again so I am Moonstar but I am going back to be Silverstar again. -Silverstar♣♣♣♣♣
your welcome silverstar. i m sorry people copy you a lot
Hey Moonstar/Silverstar! How does it feel to be a Webkinz celeb?? Do you have any tips on how i can be popular too?? BC in real life people think that i am sooo immature and nerdy i am a really nice person and i want people to like me and ask me for my username all the time like they do to you :). You are nice and i would like to be your friend if you dont mind. If you dont want to that is OK 2 but i would REALLY REALLY REALLY like to hang out with you online and be your virtual BFF bc to me it seems like we have the same point of view on a lot of things :D!!
-Poppydawn*
haha omg i forgot to say that was a joke i love you moonstar iam a fan, sorry for this pleae dont hate i think your awesome-mebelovin♥♥♥
Moonstar,
I like you. You aren’t mean or inappropriate…
Could we be friends? My username is pinkipenny.
—-Alyx♥465/ Cheezit4—-
Oh, PJ…how could you be so RIDICULOUS?! I mean , 80 kids? At a party? That would be spending over 500KC! And Ella, considering that PJ is so STUBBORN, tell her that PJ’s attitude towards her is not becoming. In fact, why don’t you ask your parents’ help in planning your party? That would make things a lot better than now!
If I have a fight with my BFF, I’ll ask you, Moonstar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i totally agree….. its a bad influence…its like gossip…
I agree with Moonstar. I thought this is supposed to be friendship month…..
Well lets see, 1. Pj should NOT have ignored you and walked away with someone else. Thats just mean. 2. PJ should have listened to you.. BUT at the same time, have you thought about listing to HER ideas? Why don’t you sompromise, and have like a medium party and like jmcs said have everyone bring something they like, and make like a buffet. That would be good wouldn’t it? I hope you two work it out :)
Did you say stuff like that to PJ? Maybe have 15 guests-ten is maybe a few too little for a end of school bash, but you can’t handle 20. You could order pizza, but have the guests bring desserts, chips, etc. You could have it inside with lots of cool music at first, then start to calm it down. For example, you could do dancing, karaoke, games, and so on. Then you could have everyone outside for marshmellow roasting, charades, crafts, and so on. OR you could have a sleepover with just a few people but make it CRAZY!! Just a thought.
Just put on gloves and fight it out. Then invite everyone and Ganz pays for the pizza and party favors. something cool please and not food!!
Katrina Of Slytherin, I take it you like Slytherin? Lol
I had a fight with my friend today it got pretty bad but then we ended up crying and hugging each other and now were friends again. I just hate when friends like Ella McWoof and PJ collie and me and my friend get into fights who agrees that they hate when friends get into fights and stuff like that? :(
haha, yeah you could guess that ;) Im more of the hufflepuff type though.
You are so right Ella and P.J, you guys should make up friendship is more important than a party. You guys should compromise and have things that the both of you would like. Be friends again and everyone will be happy especially you guys
I think you shold do both but i would go to PJ’s party beacuase I luv big parties so much I am inviting my whole grade over for a back to school bash!!!!!
what party i confused i all ways use my username as my webkinz name i Bratzz1