Hey friends – I’m so glad I’ve got you guys to talk to. Why? Because PJ and I had a ginormous fight.
It’s all about the end-of-year party. She just wouldn’t listen to my ideas. I just wanted to keep the party small and invite our closest friends. I think it’s more fun to host five or ten guests at my place. We could order pizza and watch movies and even roast marshmallows in the backyard. But noooo! She wants to have some gigantic bash in the park. “Let’s invite the whole wide world!” she said.
Seriously? I don’t want, like, eighty kids at the party. I don’t even KNOW eighty kids to invite. That’s insane! Plus, who’s going to buy the pizza for that many guests? Ugh! And then she called me a ‘homebody’ and ‘a downer’ and said I ‘needed to expand my horizons.’
Whatever! As if she’s the worldliest Webkinz. I can’t believe she said those things. I saw her at school yesterday and she wouldn’t even look at me – she just linked arms with Amanda Panda and walked in the other direction.
Did I over-react, friends? What did I do wrong?
Ella, I understand that you’re hurt. But there is absolutely no good reason to ruin a friendship over something as relatively small as this.
First, I think you should write PJ a letter. If she won’t talk to you in person, she might read what you have to say. In this letter, apologize for getting angry and ask for her forgiveness.
Then, after you’ve become friends again, you should work out this issue calmly and with friendliness. There’s no point in getting angry — it never helps. So whenever you start getting angry at each other, take a few minutes to cool down. Talk about something else, do a fun activity, or even go in separate rooms for a while. Then, when you’ve both cooled off, talk about the party again.
Maybe you could have 2 parties in one day! Have a few friends over at lunchtime for the movie — that’s when you could have pizza and maybe popcorn, like you had planned. Then, in the evening, you could have the big bash PJ wants! You could hire a band to do live music, and have people volunteer to bring something to eat or drink.
Or you could do it vice versa: Have the bash at noon, and then have your few close friends stay afterwards for pizza, movie, and marshmallows!
you,ve got a point ella. i think she over reacted. but just give her a few days to cool off. and work out a deal. maybe invite 15-16 people. but only your friends. don’t worry this happens all the time with my bff. we make up with in a few days.
You should have a medium party you should both be allowed to invite, lets say only 20 guests. that would be 40 people that way Pj has her friends and you have yours. And as for the food you can do a potluck. Then everyone can bring something and you share.
poor PJ!! and Ella!
I don’t like ginormous parties either, just me and my close-er friends, but that is a rediculous thing to fight over!What you need to do is TALK to eachother, and apologize. Then listen to eachothers ideas, and make a party you will both be comfortable with. If you can’t agree on some kind of party, DON’T HAVE ONE. It’s not worth breaking up your friendship, and if a party will split you up, just forget the party. Give her some time to cool off and call her up, then talk about it like mature webkinz. If you can’t come to an agreement, either have two parties, or don’t have any. I repeat, it’s not worth breaking your friendship. If she is really you best friend, she’ll listen to your ideas and compromise with you, and she won’t stay mad at you.
Oh boy! How sad… I don’t think that amaya panda should of linked arms with PJ Collie!!! She proubly would of new that they were in a fight!!! That sooo sad… Well I am looking for a friend!
If you want to be my friend on Webkinz please add me to your conacts! My username is: 2882555
I like Cinpep’s Idea. that way , you will have a very neat and organized party with only ten or twenty people!
oh-no! this is bad pj and ella are like sisters!
you should say you are sorry about the fight and give her a hug and have a huge party were you invite lots of friends and watch a movie and then later have a party when you invite your closest friends and roast marshmallows and have pizza would that work for you?
Maybe you and PJ can have a coversasion, sometime even BFF have arguement, so maybe you and PJ can have number of friends you both agree, then choose other place than arguing and the time past.