Hey friends – I’m so glad I’ve got you guys to talk to. Why? Because PJ and I had a ginormous fight.
It’s all about the end-of-year party. She just wouldn’t listen to my ideas. I just wanted to keep the party small and invite our closest friends. I think it’s more fun to host five or ten guests at my place. We could order pizza and watch movies and even roast marshmallows in the backyard. But noooo! She wants to have some gigantic bash in the park. “Let’s invite the whole wide world!” she said.
Seriously? I don’t want, like, eighty kids at the party. I don’t even KNOW eighty kids to invite. That’s insane! Plus, who’s going to buy the pizza for that many guests? Ugh! And then she called me a ‘homebody’ and ‘a downer’ and said I ‘needed to expand my horizons.’
Whatever! As if she’s the worldliest Webkinz. I can’t believe she said those things. I saw her at school yesterday and she wouldn’t even look at me – she just linked arms with Amanda Panda and walked in the other direction.
Did I over-react, friends? What did I do wrong?
okay this is what u do Ella why don’t u and Pj have like 20 or 25 friends and do all that other stuff sit down and share ur ideas then compromise but if it does not work why have a party at all this party is pulling u 2 apart -kitkat-
Do neither…don’t have party, sit in a corner and talk to your wall. Its lots of fun.
I have a great idea Ella and PJ! Why don’t you Ella, enter about PJ in the frieindship contest! That’s to get her attention. Then she will talk to you because right now, I don’t think she wants to talk at all. So when she talks to you say your sorry, and she will most likely say sorry too. Then tell her that we could kind of do both ideas, but make up one that includes not EVERYONE IN THE WORLD , about 30, 20. OR ask her some other number. DO WHAT SHE SAID. So, after that, pick if you want to have the party at PJ’S HOUSE OR ELLA’S HOUSE. Whatever she picked, DO IT. If she says park, tell her that isn’t that a bit big for whatever other number she picks. Tell her that there isn’t a lot of stuff to do at the park. Tell her that there are bats at night and bugs that bite. She will probably say ok and pick ELLA’S HOUSE OR PJ’S HOUSE. Promise her that after you will go to the park and roast marshmellows with your closest friends! This is what you did Ella. You didn’t compermise and use any of her ideas. That’s what you did. How would you like it? Treat others the way you want to be treated Ella. I am not saying you are bad but, YOU HAVE TO COMPERMISE. PJ I am not forgetting about you. You don’t just walk off with Amanda Panda! Stop trying to be a show off PJ. You are not bad either PJ, you make great clothes, but, DON’T BE A SHOW OFF! DON’T WALK OFF WITH OTHERS AND SHOW OFF! PJ, ELLA, the next time I look at what happened, I better see my name up there, and you better have used my plan. OR someone else’s. If I see that you don’t get along and close Webkinz News and the Kinzstyle Outlet. Oh I am going to be so upset! It’s not THAT bad. Just CONMPERMISE ALREADY! Thank You.
Hello?!?! It’s obvious you both should apologize to each other and have a potluck and let everyone bring different kinds of food so everyone can try different things. As for the place what about in your backyard? That way it is still outside but close to your house.
MAYBE YOU CAN FIND A HALF WAY POINT LIKE 20 OR 30 AND IF NOT SAY SOMTHING LIKE “PJ I KNOW THIS PARTY
IS COMMING BETWEEN US BUT OUR FRIENDSHIP IS WORTH MORE THAN SOME SILLY FIGHT YOU ARE TRULY MY
BEST FRIEND” THAT SHOULD WORK
if you cant have a conversation about a party without yelling, or name-calling, or someone being bossy, then maybe you shouldn’t be friends. that’s not what friendship is about.
Hi! To my opinion I think you both did! There is a way you both can compromise and still be good friends. This is how I would have done it: You and PJ set down and ask yourselves if the people that you guys invite really going to have a good time and enjoy being there with our other friends or are they going to fight and ruin the party? Of course Ella you were right about not knowing eighty kids to invite. How would PJ know eighty kids? I think you guys just need to set down and understand that if the friends you don’t invite this time,you can always have more parties and invite the other ones. I am sure you guys will work everything out by the help of everyone that cares about you! Just don’t let what PJ is doing with Amanda panda bring you down!! She is just trying to make you feel like you were the bad guy when you both were. Like WebkinzGuru said be the bigger person. Make her think “I should have thought before I spoke”. I hope you guys work things out! These are all my opinions> :)
Neither of you guys should have acted that way. You should have not called her insane, but she shouldn’t have called you names, or try to get you jelous. Maybe PJ is not the friend for you. Maybe, you need a new one, but only at the last resort. You need to talk to your parents, or another friend about it! :mrgreen:
You two should talk about it.Why don’t you put them together and do it like this:Put the party in the park and invite 50 to 20 people.I think that would be perfect.Why don’t you try it.~Shamrock7191~Peace out:-)!
You guys should just work it out and be friends :)