Hey friends – I’m so glad I’ve got you guys to talk to. Why? Because PJ and I had a ginormous fight.
It’s all about the end-of-year party. She just wouldn’t listen to my ideas. I just wanted to keep the party small and invite our closest friends. I think it’s more fun to host five or ten guests at my place. We could order pizza and watch movies and even roast marshmallows in the backyard. But noooo! She wants to have some gigantic bash in the park. “Let’s invite the whole wide world!” she said.
Seriously? I don’t want, like, eighty kids at the party. I don’t even KNOW eighty kids to invite. That’s insane! Plus, who’s going to buy the pizza for that many guests? Ugh! And then she called me a ‘homebody’ and ‘a downer’ and said I ‘needed to expand my horizons.’
Whatever! As if she’s the worldliest Webkinz. I can’t believe she said those things. I saw her at school yesterday and she wouldn’t even look at me – she just linked arms with Amanda Panda and walked in the other direction.
Did I over-react, friends? What did I do wrong?
Girls, you gotta listen to each other. Each of you take turns talking. One talks the other listens and repeats back what she heard. Then find a compromise on something that will work for both of you. I think first you both need to listen to each other’s side without interruptions first.
You both need to compromise, or sit down and talk about it. Tell PJ to listen, and let her add some ideas when you finish. You shouldn’t make it all of your likes, or hers. You should make it half and half. Talk it through, and decide. Don’t yell at each other, stay calm. Do something like, “If you do so-and-so, then can I do so-and-so?” Ask, Agree, and do not argue. Don’t let a party tear apart your friendship.
-Rico1206
whatever. i am not answering.
You totally over reacted.You don’t need to fight or argue, you should admit your mistakes and hopefully she’ll do the same back. The right thing to do is to compromise and combine both your ideas together or think of another party plan that you both like. But the first and must important thing to do is to apoligize and if she’s really your friend she’ll apoligize and forgive you wich you should do back, good luck with the party plan Ella.I like both of your ideas!!
You guys should just work it out, and try to be honest with eachother. Invite her to a party, even if you still aren’t talking to her. Best wishes, Moonstarz123
Um, can you please not use my name so closely like that? Wow, using ‘star isn’t the coolest thing ever now. It isn’t fair for you to use my name that close, it is practicly, actually, I consider it copying me! U can use the name: SavvyShopper or Fashionable Fashionista! -Moonstar*~!~!~!*
You should just ignore her, but be nice at the same time. Make some new friends, and have your own party. Don’t let PJ be the boss of you, and try to be nice :)
I totally understand wanting a small party, that would be my choice. In this case though, I think you should try her way, and go with the big party. But instead of having pizza, I think you should make it a pot luck party and let everyone bring their favorite food to share. You can bring pizza and marshmallows if you want, but you don’t have to bring enough for everyone. Then maybe in the middle of summer, or as a back to school get-together, you could invite those few friends you wanted and have a smaller party. Whatever you decide, I hope you two can work things out – friendships are too important to lose over a party.
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send each other a note…
BFF… please forgive me for over reacating or ignoring you at school!!
and send it with a candy bar or… MONEY!!!
AND invite only 10 people to your party,80 is way to many maybe 15 but not 80 and… bye see you later!!!
and visit my forum the perfect kitchen its had no buissness and I am really sad =( =0 boo hooohoo
I believe if you give in to her sometimes, she’ll give in to you if she’s such a good friend, also instead of ordering pizza, have everone of the webkinz bring a dish to share!!! You and her should combine all your friends, and that will solve your people problem, and you should also invite some people that you would like to be friends with!!! After everyones tips, even I would want to come to your party!!!